What do you do when you are trying really hard to have a great day but the universe just doesn't cooperate?
I woke up today going "yeah this is gonna be a good day I've got it all down woo let's do it!" Looked good, had time to spare....
Then I got an occular migraine in one eye, which I laughed it off "woah weird lol okay" then I got sea salt soap in the other eye, which felt like I punched my eye with a hot coal. Trying to get that out was ridiculous. So I'm on my way to work, trying to laugh off the fact that one eye is covered in weird squiggles and the other feels like Satan's asshole, aaaaaaand get stuck behind 5 tractors. Haaaaa well they give us the wheat for my bread so yay haha....
Shake it off it's fine we can still have a good daaaay
Oh but my work is now really grinding the patience I've tried really hard to have today. And that's all ignoring the internet hate I get daily.
So how do you handle days where you want to be in a good mood but it just seems like everything that can go bad does?
Sorry Alyx - that sounds like an awful day - you really need a good one in there!
Lol I'm still trying to laugh it off
Emotions can only be dictated by others if you allow them to. So sluff off the dolts and have good karma for your self. Put a song in your head and the beast of the world around you will calm down.
Everyone says you're the only one who can control your emotions but I've never actually met anyone in complete control of their emotions
@LadyAlyxandrea people can say things to you and you can take that information and let it evoke old memories and those memories can sway your rationalization or you can use your imagination and create an entirely new memories depends how much you want to be in control of your own thoughts.
Just take it one second at a time. Hopefully the next second will be better than the present one. It is very difficult to try and remain positive but that appears to be all we can do. It becomes harder to do that when one feels that the universe is against them no matter what they do. As the song goes 'things can only get better'. Personally my bad day has been lasting for over a year with no end in sight. It is easy to feel sorry for ourselves. All appears to be going against us regardless of what we do. Maybe it is, maybe it isn't, maybe it just appears to be?
Start drinking early??? ?
What does someone who doesn't drink alcohol do? Lol
@LadyAlyxandrea I've always found chai latte to be very soothing