Others suggested this but go online to one of the more hook-up oriented dating sites (Agnostic.com definitely ain't that) and find one where you can explain yourself a little more. Someplace where you can say what you want. I wouldn't hide the fact that you're a virgin either. Many women would be intrigued by being a guys first. All this is assuming you want to go the hook-up route. I didn't 'technically' lose my virginity until I was 22 so even though your hormones are screaming at you there is no rush. Take precautions and never forget that even though you may just be hooking-up that is another human being you're with. I hope you find the right choice for you.

The palm sisters are always there for you. Toxic sperm build up can be a problem at 20, drop some of the hormonal tension and your chances of being able to interact with the opposite sex in a civilized manner will increase dramatically.

you're only 20? it's not really a bad thing. just don't go out and get an std first go'in

You have a lot of challenges to cope with and my heart goes out to you. This is a safe place to start - you can talk about your religious background and your journey toward questioning. You can also meet women safely because this is a social/conversation site more than a dating site.