So....not sure what goes on on the "het" dating sites, but in the gay world there is a disturbing trend of late to go on wounded Snowflake diatribes about how using terms such as "masc" in YOUR OWN PROFILE ....or simply stating what turns you on-- if it excludes ANY race or body type.....makes one a racist...or trans-phobic....etc...etc..etc.... I find this completely mind-numbingly moronic. Thoughts?
A friend of mine was trying to explain to me the various factions regarding this topic and it just blew me away. It touched on exactly what you're explaining.
The topic made me feel absolutely clueless and old with all the nuances.
There seems to be a segment that is a dangerous troll to all sorts of people. Really scary!
All the terminologies alone make my head hurt. There are soooo many.
It's pretty much everywhere. Can't say about lesbian dating sites as I've never found one, but if they exist it's probably there, too.