Unfortunately, IN MY EXPERIENCE, most men do not know how to be honest - hear me out! So many woman say they want honesty, that when a man tells her the truth, she gets stupid. Then I say I want honesty and the man doesn't believe me and holds back. He doesn't lie, but holds back, because this is what he has been trained to do. Then it takes me forever, and I play hell in the meantime, to get him to believe me that I am truly not like that.

But I've also seen men do the same thing. Tell me they want the truth, but when I tell them the truth they get all twisted up.

I WANT TRUTHFULNESS. Even to the point that if these jeans make my ass look fat - don't you dare let me walk out this door in them!

If I'm gaining weight (or too much), tell me! Don't be an ass about it. But tell me. In my opinion, I cannot get mad at the truth.

It's OK if you loved your ex and had a good relationship until you didn't. You are allowed to talk about it in a good light. It's OK! Really! You do not have to hate your ex to win my affections.

You do not have to pretend I'm the first one you ever loved. Pooey on that! I'm not stupid. You are NOT the first one I've ever loved and my heart has been broken and I would have still been there if he hadn't broken my heart. TRUTH! But I have moved on. And you are not my first love. However, if I decide to give you my love, I am able to love again, just as hard and just as fully.

Truth. Just tell me the truth. Because my imagination of how you feel or what you are thinking, is usually a lot worse than the reality.

Sigh...#1. I feel exactly the same...which is probably why I'm still single
#2. Why are you so far away...

This is a long shot ?

You've got the right idea. My last relationship ended because of dishonesty. Good to put the desire for honesty out there right off! Best of luck to you!

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