Maybe an attempt to use words instead of lazy short hand would improve the responses that you get. If you discuss verbally in the same manner that you discuss on the written page, I can understand why people take offence. You probably need to learn how to articulate more effectively if you want to be taken seriously. If English is not your first language, and you seriously want to have meaningful discussion, it may be worth enrolling in an English conversational course. I am not criticising, just suggesting a means of making yourself better understood.

I have worked in multi faith groups in education. When asked I start by saying. I will explain as long as you won't be offended. Then leave it to them. Christians seem to be the offended more than Sinks, Muslim's, Jew's , hindus etc.

Learn to spell. It's not hard.

No. There is no solution to this.
It is not possible to reason with delusional people.

Only every time I went back home to missouri. Eventually we just stopped bringing up religion or politics at all

There is quite a bit of brainwashing that goes on in a young child life. Anything you say has to battle years of conditioning. As far as a solution, a way to make them see reason? I doubt anything you say would work.

In my opinion, I think they get so offended because they are afraid your right.

"Is there a solution to this kind of response?" Yeah, stop talking and trying to force your sense of truth on others - doing so doesn't make you any different than the Christians or others of "faith" that you're protesting against.

If you could reason with religious people, there would be no religious people.

No. People who confuse their beliefs with their identity cannot tolerate you failing to hold the same beliefs. It's an existential threat. They will never respond rationally to it.

The solution is: shut up.