“We need to give each other the space to grow, to be ourselves, to exercise our diversity. We need to give each other space so that we may both give and receive such beautiful things as ideas, openness, dignity, joy, healing, and inclusion.”
— Max de Pree
I agree with you on that very much.
The only thing I would add though, is that often times people working together can have a positive effect too.
That's a lovely sentiment.
Unfortunately, there are those who not only refuse to acknowledge that, they actively impede it.
This speaks directly to yesterday's topic of "civility".
How can we maintain civility toward those who violently obstruct the rights of people just to "be"? Who go out of their way to diminish everyone who isn't them?
I provide information as I can or as allowed, and if abuse starts, I inform them that we can only continue if they are civil.
I also inform them that, as we're supposed to be adults, act like it, or there is nothing further to discuss.
I won't allow abusive behavior, and I won't contribute to such.
These subjects are much too much for whiney little children, so if that's how they act, I will tell them such and won't engage again until they want to BE adult about it.