Panhandlers frequently say "God bless you" when I give them money. Annoying but I'm not inclined to criticize them. I was broke and homeless as a teen, their lives are hard enough already.
I'll be honest I tell people god bless you when they help me out.
Just because this is a highly Christian state, and I learned the people here are more likely to keep helping or encourage others to if you use their religion to kinda puff them up a little. It's manipulation but when you're desperate you do what you have to
I think they are panhandling to the belief that religious people are going to be more kind and generous in their assistance. They would be wrong. We have all seen the behaviour in our current political situation of the religious doing exactly the opposite. I try to turn it around, but I still don't know what to say except "hope it helps you a little".
"god bless you" never been annoying to me.
Agreed. A once-homeless friend over 20 years ago passed on this suggestion: When you come upon a homeless person, look them in the eye and say hello. The worst part of the experience of homelessness is the denial of your humanity by others.
I've done so ever since.
I was also homeless for a few months as a teenager. You've gotta do what you've gotta do.
When I was a teenager I stayed in a women's shelter ran by nuns. And you had to pretend to be Christian and participate in their little churchy bs. But I had a roof over my head for a few days
When they tell me "god bless", I tell them I don't believe in a god or gods. They need to know that we are here, part of society and that we are decent people...
What good do you think your approach will be? I'd say the majority of panhandlers are not very religious themselves, and are saying "God Bless You" as a step above a generic thank you.
@24BurritoDragon I think most of them are religious, waiting for their Jesus to save them...
I like to allow them the honor of honoring me in the manner that is appropriate for them. I say, Thank You" as way of permitting them to help me with the only thing they may have to offer as their "Thank You" for helping them.
I believe they would be better off as atheists in the long run, but you don't want to be like, "here's a dollar, by the way, God's dead". Leaving it alone is probably the right call...
I find that odd too. God has apparently turned his back on these people. God claims to love us all, frankly, I don't want nor need that kind of love.