Wow, she's got such a beautiful smile and seems like a genuinely sweet and caring person. And, aw man, she's here for community
And if she's not here for the community, she's 10 states away.
And if she's less than 10 states away, she won't reply your messages... You can't win, I tell you
Maybe she has had bad experiences on other sites and gets bombarded by rude and inconsiderate people and is protecting herself...maybe community is a way of making friends and enjoying life and what it offers without the pressure of trying to force a relationship...maybe she is testing the waters since she is new to the site...