Independent enough to not need me, strong enough to admit she wants me.

Capable of holding a good enough job to help support a household, self reliant enough to be able to make their own way in the world without being lead around by the nose at every turn and smart enough to formulate their own thoughts and opinions about things.

I have no time in my life for clingy people who need to have others guide them and tell them what to do and what to think through every single moment of their lives. People like that just annoy the shit out of me.

Not sure what that means. A relationship is defined by both parties. If one dominates the other then you have kinda a overlord and subservient relationship. I prefer my partner to be strong willed, know what they want. If you have both people independent, do you have a relationship, which requires compromise

My dream girl seems to be pretty independent she won't even show up

I don’t know how common it is, but I don’t have a dream girl or even a dream woman.

i wouldn't be interested in someone who wasn't able to stand on their own two feet. Or someone who was afraid to disagree with me or stick up for themselves in a relationship.