I want y'all to meet "the other woman", the prime contributor to my divorce. My ex is the web master, he started this website in 1996, it totally absorbed him and still does. The church members thought it was "so cool". His parents thought it was amazing. He once dedicated a hymn to me for Mother's Day. He used existing music and wrote the words. Had nothing to do with Mothers or love, it was a damn easter hymn. Needless to say that was NOT what I wanted. In our divorce there was a stipulation that any reference to me had to be removed from his website.
[hymntime.com] I had not realized the URL did not get posted.
Balance is so essential in relationships neither too much nor too little time apart from lifestyle during career or private time. ....most parenting balanced and shared deepens home life love in my experience. ....sadly painful secrets I could not keep for my spouse was reason for me to divorce her after 9 years. ...her ex manipulated their pain amongst their 3 children and I protected our single child from it all and her 3 elder half siblings. ....17 years past that divorce I hope others on this website have found the healing distance from "ex"s