Do you think growing up in religion makes you kinkier in bed? Because of the thought of sinning? Or are born atheists and freethinkers kinkier from the get go?
We all have our things. My kink could be your vanilla.
I always understood that as a Catholic thing. I guess its about the natural response to repression. And the constant focus on sin. Yummy!
On the flip side, after marriage, the song comparing the freedom to have sex and actually having sex is a hoot in Monty Python's Meaning of Life:
I don't really have anything about me that has any desires of 'kinky'. But I will try anything that my partner wants if it makes her feel good.
The world changes so fast that i don't think there's any way to quantify kink anymore.