Yea, I agree. But to be in love is way more. I loved my wife and was in love with her. Even when she pissed me the fuck off. I understood her and as soon as she knew that, she surprised me with something new.
Will have to sleep on that one... I got the bottom 4 with "Lady L" for 16 years and.... we don't call it Real Love or never acknowledge it as such and yes... we lived together at one time. On fairness I am going to ask her, let's see what she says.