I'm not seeing that people are very friendly here at all . Of course , I don't actually see many different people and Ive only seen one profile of a woman whose less than 35 miles away , a few that are 65 miles away but no evidence that any of those are active . There seems to be zero new women from an ungodly 250 mile range since I got here . If yesterday is any indication then pretty much nothing happens here on a Friday and this morning seems to still be leftovers from Thursday evening ? Just sharing feedback ! Well , someone should share something shouldnt they ?
Check meetup. I'm a memeber of a few local atheist groups. They do different activities as a group. Good luck.
Meetup is mainly for Colorado and specifically Denver people.
@malemusician I'm located in Indiana and I'm a memeber of several groups in Indiana and Ohio. All groups within an hour drive for me.
I've noticed the same. However, when I posted a thread I got many comments. Several have reached out to me. Give it time. Put yourself out there and see what happens. Best of luck to you!
The problem I have with that ' just hang in there approach ' is this .
Local is the thing .
The thing that matters most to me , now !
Maybe later , after I've found my local dream baby I would wanna just hang out with kindreds here but...
that being said
If there are local ppl on this site then the site is playing games with me and certainly not showing them to me which means the site can't be trusted
Or
It is that the site does not have local members and I'm wasting my time here for that purpose !
What exactly is the goal of sharing this feedback? Not enough agreeable women near you. Got it. You're not entertained by the available posts. Got it. Seen a couple of your other posts and it's pretty clear that you're not satisfied with the way life's treating you these days. Has broadcasting your woes served you well as an aphrodisiac in the past? Are people normally attracted to you when you tell them they're too far away and need to step up their efforts to better entertain you? Might be time to reevaluate your relationship and communications strategy. Wish you luck in your search.
I guess I have a busy mind and a feed-back fetish , ha .
Theres apparently ' according to this site ' zero women near me of any level of agreeableness , which , yes , is boring af .
The woes / aphrodisiac thing just makes no sense but thanks for the effort .
I guess I do have a high- threshold for complaints/ feedback and I think these things often precede progress .
And I realize that many others have virtually no threshold for any language that points to negativities in reality .
I think the root of that is generally laziness and irresponsibility but I'm sure other dynamics could be at play , never the less ...whatever !
Since I'm bored , I'll share a lil more feedback , in that I have heard similar feedback as mine throughout this site in comments , now , i personally don't enjoy such feedback myself either if its not tied to a willingness to address the
issues .
I wonder if theres ever been a ' think- tank kinda group ' here to try find solutions to this ' no actual ppl from my area
problem ' ?
But how does this make anybody unfriendly?
You should reread the post
or re- write it to suit ya .
I didnt say anyone was unfriendly , that would require an interaction that was negative on their part .
I said that I wssnt seeing ppl who were very friendly , meaning not much positive enthusiasm regarding an interaction .
@Scottzillyun Yah, you didn't say any of that in your comment.
If you want local, join a local group. This is the internet. It's worldwide.
Strange how no local groups seem to exist except for silly things like religious or yard sales, etc .
We atheists aren't really known for our friendliness...
Considering the nature of the site , I would have to wonder why one would be here if not to be
friendly ?
@Scottzillyun That is why I am here, as probably are most others, but when you think of things atheists are considered to be, friendly isn't usually on the list.
Why don't you share and see what happens and stop whinning. Seems you are just looking for a hookup ! If you are then you are on the wrong site !
And dimwits !
Strange! I joined awhile back and think it is very active. Not the dating pool per se, but the groups. Sorry you are not finding it worthwhile.
Really , so you find a significant number of others who are local to you ?
@Scottzillyun not necessarily local. But I see your point. You want to find groups, people etc. Who live owe and meet in person. Perhaps start a group for that with a 50 mile radius and see what pops up? Overall, people here are friendly even if they are not physically close. The conversations are good.