Ok, I got this "jail" tattoo when I was 18. It's the only one I have. It's on my right shoulder, and I wear tank tops a lot. Many people seem to like it, whether they get the double entendre or not. However, I do have mixed feelings about it. I'm not anywhere as nihilistic as I was at 18; and while I do like it--it clearly represents a "victim" mentally I nolonger wish to promote. Nontheless, it is very sentimental.
Obviously, my mother hates it and offered to pay to alter it, and obviously this reinforces a childish desire to keep it. However ironically, my best friend who gave me the tattoo offered to do the same. He tells me he gets sad every time he looks at it. Anyway, I could psychoanalyze this ad infinitum.
I am very reluctant to post something personal, but also I'm trying to avoid sorting through boxes of paperwork. So what do you all think? Should I keep it or alter it? Or should I stop posting my personal shit before it becomes habitual and use my time more effectively? In any case, I'm very interested to hear your thoughts and opinions. Thankyou.
It only matter how you feel about your own body. Do you not want this tattoo? Then do an untattoo. Would you be happier covering it with a better tattoo?
Your right. Unfortunately, this is one area I'm struggling with in my relatively sucessful campaign to eradicate as much cognitive dissonance as possible from my inturnal dialogue. I guess once again it comes down to my value hierarchy. Do I value my past more than I value my future? I hope not. However, I'm starting to fear that I do. Shit, I don't have time for this right now. Anyway, thanks. I've decided to cover it with a bandage, and instead focus on "lower hanging fruit" in my ongoing quest of self improvement.
I had a simple tat I got in my misspent youth. I outgrew it. I have a photo up of my cover up, a memorial tattoo for my dad who passed in 2004. Worth every frickin penny. I love it & show it of as often as reasonably possible.