Not really looking for advice but I just found out my ex-husband passed away today. He was a bat sh*t crazy Christian who hurt us all with his emotional and physical abuse. Until the end he showed no remorse for the pain he had caused me and his 3 children, who are now adults, even as he was wasting away with cancer since Christmas. In the end, they weren't there for him in his last hours, but they found no closure either.