Some women say guys of a certain age are too young for them... until they meet an amazing guy that age.

For me, I am not too keen into age. Too old for me is 11+ years since that ends up in a different generational perspective...

My preference is not more than 5 years younger and 5-10 years older. Now none of these are written in stone.

As I said Connie, one must need to do it right the first time. And speaking of time, it is a nice long time with weed, wine, music, and numerous engagements of the same. It is about seeing the other person and tending to their wants. All attention on them, as for me, when the time is right,

I lied about my age on here because your date of birth is such a common security question.

The only rule I have is that I will never date anyone younger than my oldest son (he's 39).

Now, if I had a chance with Jason Mamoa........ well let's say that rule will be thrown out the window

It's not the age so much as the "phase of life". I have children, but none in the home now. I am free to come and go as I please and basically 'do what I want when I want'. A man my age might be in a similar phase or he might be wanting to start a family if has not already 'been there, done that'. Activity level, health habits, common or compatible interests, and similar life expectations are what matter most to me right now.

I look for guys close to my age, more than half the distance from my oldest daughter's age, so right now men over 47. I'm 60, she's 33. As far as how old, more than number is health. That is true for any age though. If you're convinced that you have one foot in the grave, I'm out. I'm not ready for the end just yet.

I am concentrated on my age group. I find women in my group to have, for the most part, the same state of mind that one reaches at certain passages.
No regarding the sex stuff. A younger man can go 3-4 times in one night but at my age I do it right the first time

It just depends. I like all ages for different reasons. My longest relationship was with a man 10 yrs my senior. But most of my relationships are with younger men. It usually depends on their humor and energy level. Younger men usually have more but not always.

health and activity levels matter more to me than age.I was with a much younger man once and thought it would be uncomfortable for him as I got much older just in terms life stages

I generally go 5 years younger to 5+ older. My ex was 5 years my junior. I’ve dated various ranges, except mostly younger or more my age. I find I am drawn to someone with the ability to volley an intellectual conversation. So the age varies. However, I am not interested in being a “teacher” or a “nurse.”

Dated older, younger. My age range is 45-73.

Yes, age has an impact when dating / relationship. I would be very surprised to find any affinity with a gentleman who is 10 years younger....or 20 years older.

Pardon my intrusion but seems to be a lot of concerns and questions by the 50 aged female in this site. I am just a concerned male citizen.

Come on, then, Connie... what's your preference and why?!

I'm 49 and I choose to date within about 5 years for the most part. For me it is about media taste and common experiences. I hate 70's music and culture so to date someone who enjoys that means headphones.

Was I close enough in age to respond??