Throws drink in face

I bet you don’t have any second date questions.

First Date Answer: "I'd say I'm about as aware as you clearly aren't....also I really want to leave now, so bye."

Guaranteed to be your last date with that person.

Great question if you want to make sure your date doesn't want a second date with you.

Yikes! Not a first date kind of question!

That question projects enough shit for me to run away as fast as possible.

right back at you....let's hear about the work you've put into yourself.....so, how long have you been in counseling and what meds are you on?

If someone is unloading their emotional baggage on you during a first date, time to remember something you must do at home, then don't accept another date.

Seems a tad confrontational for a first date! It would make me leave!

That's a walk away, block her number kind of question... Something you should bring up with your therapist.

Not really a first date question. More like a final date question.

I would say that would have to go in the silly category because I can't think of anyone having a fun time after that!!!!

You don't. You look for someone whose baggage matches yours.

More aware of my traumas than the guy using that line on me.

That would be a first-date-that-is-also-the-only-date question

That's a terrible first date question. It's negative and too personal.

I'm not going to describe my personal growth or tell sad stories on a first date.

"Kathleen, you have grown tremendously in the past five years," my ex-husband said. High praise. Using Motivational Interviewing techniques, my relationship with our daughter improved tremendously.

Most men are not aware of their own suppressed emotions.

In my experience, most guys can hold it together for about three weeks. Then the bad behavior comes out, the same bad behavior that killed their past relationships.

This is because very few men work on their personal issues, unlike many women I know.

Heavy for a first date, it seems.

Were I your date and you asked the question that way, you would be a one time event. I'd excuse myself, leave, and let you pay the bill.

I'd be asking that before the first date, while we were still talking and getting to know one another.

That is not right, but most definately funny as Hell!!

OK. Let's just cut to the quick, shall we? That said, may actually help in some cases.

Well that would make me spit the 1.75 Starbucks coffee in your face. Accidentally of course. I go Dutch so you can't really tell me how to behave with my coffee.
I would grade you as below average in my black book. Someone who is probablly, at 60, cannot handle self reflection of their own character flaws.?

In the spirit: First Date Answer: How much of your sexist baggage are you dragging around from when you watched your Dad dominate your Mom just for the hell of it?

That seems like a pretty heavy first date question.