I have gotten more careful about what I post since I joined, since most of it is either ignored, or incites the kind of responses I don't want, but I do appreciate the nudge. In your honor, I will put up a couple of things today.

I am at level 7.8. Since January I have made over 200 posts and over 1,700 comments. Granted, some people have more than me. Perhaps what you're seeing is quality over quantity. I'd rather see one interesting post than 100 bland ones, and I have no problem weeding through the bland ones to find it, because they're easy to pass over.

I have posted a lot. I consider it a bit egotistical of me, to think people will care what I think/say. I do it anyway, because I have NPD and need validation ???

Since February 2018, I have written 48 posts. The first post generated nearly 50 comments. To my surprise, I have 95 followers.

Don't ask women to post more and in the next breath, insult our posts. Does "lack of strut" mean weakness or lack of confidence?

Why we Should Stop Telling Women to be More Confident

“To many women, confidence means self-assuredness. It means striding into a situation, head held high not out of arrogance, but preparedness,” behavioral expert Wendy Patrick, JD, PhD, said.

"While this may look similar to ways men manifest confidence, the way each gender achieves that posture can be very different," she explains. "Women often put a higher value on building relationships, empathizing, and kindness, in addition to being prepared, polite, and firm.

"Telling a woman to “be more confident” can invalidate traditional forms of female confidence while reinforcing the idea that only stereotypically male forms of confidence—like aggression and assertiveness—are the “right” way to be confident. In truth, both genders benefit from greater empathy."

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I’m a very superficial woman. If it takes too long to read or write, I loose interest

Maybe try re-evaluating the groups you are in?

I disagree I see many many posts by women. Maybe they've all blocked you?

I am a lover of language, particularly, colloquialisms. I am not familiar with term "attractive lack of strut". Could I get a definition please?

(My current favorite colloquialism is from an Australian friend who when asked if he were ready to go said, "well, I'm not here to fuck spiders".)

There are probably less posts by women because we like to have something worth posting before we do so! A lot of the posts here are pretty repetitive and about US politics which a lot men in particular seem obsessed with. As a Brit. I find a bit of a disconnect sometimes between our cultures, but do my best to understand the Americanisms! Will try to post more in future will be my new motto!!

Oh you would like my strut

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