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Have you ever found yourself spellbound by the voice, appearance, or actions of another person?
Where you literally were so drawn in (either for a moment, or a lifetime) that you could think of nothing but that person, and the thing that captured your soul so completely?

DerekD 7 Aug 14
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Level 8

Absolutely. I once followed some guy through a store (I don't think he realized it), because I was so drawn to him - not even sure what it was exactly. We never talked or anything ...
But - wow, what a pull !

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Level 7

Yup. I don't think it was real, though. I think I fell in love with an illusion.

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Level 7

Yep.

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Level 8

Definitely. I think I've grown up since then.

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Level 8

When I was younger. Then I would get to know them, and all fantasy flew out the window.

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Level 8

Nope, I can't pay attention that long.

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Level 8

Not for a long time. Some people are more initially fascinating than others, to be sure, but I've learned that rampant projection of fantasy ideals / imagos are bound not to end well, and are seldom even partially reciprocated to boot.

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Level 10

Yes, the day I met my husband. Instant chemistry.....I was 27, got engaged after six weeks and were married about six months later. He died in 2010 after 37 years of happy marriage.

I should have said he had the most wonderful deep bass voice and was 6ft 6 tall !
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Level 8

Sure. Most times I'd end up dating the guy for 2-4 years!

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