assume makes an ass of u and me.
I tend to think as pro-life as pro-birth once the unwanted baby is born then things get dicey on what society should do about it.

Had a friend that got pregnant, they found out that the fetus had cystic fibrosis. They considered abortion until the Grandparents convinced them otherwise (pledging xtian support to them). They got the baby. The cute little girl is 8 now. The kind has psychological temper issues (on top of medical issues). The joyful fun mother now has suicidal thoughts and is on anti-depressants, he grandfather passed away and the grandmother spends 6 months a year in Florida. So much for support. I'm surprised the couple have not divorced yet

First of all, don’t assume that we are all pro-choice. I happen to be, but that is because I don’t think the government has any business having laws about my body and my healthcare. There are no laws about men’s bodies, in America. I miscarried 3 times in my life and i mourned those babies. When you want a baby and you are pregnant, that fetus is a baby in your mind.

I don’t think anyone should make a woman have an abortion or make a woman have a baby, as long as the baby is not viable outside the womb. It is her body and her decision. If a man wants to have his feelings considered, then he had better have a relationship with that woman. Otherwise he should obstain until he has that relationship.

One thing I've learned here is that you can't assume anything. I'll throw this out and incur the wrath I've incurred before...what if she wants an abortion and he wants his kid? They both knew the risks of that intercourse. I'm ready for the "it's her body etc" but it's his kid that the court makes him pay for if she chooses to have it and he doesn't want it....bottom line, his kid too.
But getting to your point, how can you say the woman is pro-life but incapable of choice? Pretty sure that's a choice.

I also wonder about the intelligence of some people out there who seem to contradict logic/reason: women who are pro-life/anti-abortion; women and non-white people who support Trump; nurses or public health professionals who are anti-vaccine; scientists who believe in God or another deity; and a specific example: I know a pharmacist who doesn't believe in macro-evolution even though he acknowledges the existence of micro-evolution. He's had to study/learn a wide variety of sciences that include microbiology and pharmacy courses related to how drugs and organisms affect one another, for example, bacteria evolving to be resistant to antibiotics, but he can't understand how humans and apes evolved from a common ancestor. Mind blowing to me.

I balk at the phrase "inherently stupid." Holding one singular belief does not negate an individual's ability to think rationally in other areas of their lives. I am pro-choice, but I know smart, valuable people who also happen to be "pro-life." I use the quotes because what they usually are is antiabortion. I can consider myself pro-life, but I'm probably gonna side with the life of the would-be mother.

Those quotation marks leave lots of wiggle room, don't they? ?

My niece is all about being pro-life and pro-breastfeeding. Because she's made being a welfare mom into her career. I've noticed there's a lot of pro-life trailer trash for the simple reason that they get rewarded financially for breeding. So there's that non-religious reason (unless money is your religion).

One would think, but there are all sorts on this site.
It's all about body autonomy w/the right to choose. Somehow women find themselves in the crosshairs of whether or not they've a right to what happens to their bodies yet nobody questions the right to refuse giving blood, platelets, body parts, in life or death.
We're still contesting the right to decide whether or not to follow a pregnancy to the end in this country. Dead people's rights are more of a given. Disgusting.

Most of the “reasoning” is religious, yes. Some can’t fathom making such a choice so they don’t think anyone else should be allowed to. Some, I think, assume that once a baby is born it will be loved and provided for and don’t comprehend the idea that a child might live a life of neglect or abuse as a result of forcing women to bear children they don’t want.

"Keep Your Rosaries Off My Ovaries" is my favorite button from the 70s. This week, I ordered a bumper sticker:

Keep Your Theology
Off my Biology