It is interesting that it often seems easier to connect to people that are so far away that it is unlikely to have a chance to meet in real life, yet when you see someone of seeming like mind, it is like pulling teeth to actually make contact.
While online is great, there is nothing like a good old fashioned face to face conversation.
I suppose because compatible people are so rare, and if you do find some, they might not be the type to want to hang out and discuss weighty things with strangers..most of them are busy with their lives and careers.