i have diabetic feet. i have freedom-loving feet. i have, so far, two feet. when i am home and have no visitors, i go barefoot all over. when i go out, i wear clothing, and slip-on sandals, cheap walgreen's sandals in tan or black. (if they sold other colors i'd get other colors.) my feet don't like being squoze. neither does the rest of me.
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I do have Italian or Roman toes - probably some priest in Ireland.
I only wear shoes I in which I can dance comfortably all night, or walk a couple of km in comfort.
I have no patience with the "suffering" to look good for men mentally.
MEN don't have to change anything before meeting a woman for coffee, but expect women to suffer, have high maintenance long hair, smear toxic beauty products on their faces, stuff their bodies into tight, feminine clothes, wear crippling shoes, etc. just so they can ogle them, while their guts hang out and they wear the same Dockers they always wear..
@Sheannutt Exactly. I don't worry about what men think of ME--only what I think of THEM. Mostly, they are gross..big guts, flabby, etc.
My ex was gorgeous airline pilot, fit, and my age. but he also later turned out to be a gaslighter, so that didn't work out.
Teva sandals, almost exclusively. My toes like to be free!
@Sheannutt How many tootsies do you have?
The pain of being a woman in the past. I believe most women know better know and save the pointy shoes for special occasions.