Am I weird for taking a few photos of my Pop in repose at the funeral home? My daughter says it was "creepy as f#ck." I thought they were lovely.
I think if it makes you feel better, then do it. Especially if it elicits positive feelings.
I had commented earlier about this - but I found a great link to show what I was talking about ...
I don't like the idea, but I won't stop people doing it.
There are cases where someone looked so deteriorated in life that being made up for memorial gives people a chance to see their loved ones "done up". This happened with my beloved late grandmother. They made her look great.
To each their own. I do think photos are the deceased are best taken in private to avoid judgement.
If you took a pic of him while he was alive could you have told the difference? Would the camera have captured his breathing? Don't sweat it and don't discuss it further with your sister, it's her issue and not yours.