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Saw this article about asexuals and felt some resonance. I've lost my interest in dating, sort of...
I'm not interested, unless there's a real possibility of a wonderful lively relationship with large sexual compatibility. Otherwise, why waste my time?
Thoughts...

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JazznBlues 8 Sep 8
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The more I've dated the more I know what I like and what I don't. Frustrating because I have BFF girls that I adore but the spark isn't there. I've also had girls who all we had was spark. Is it too much to ask for to want both?

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I can relate , as I feel that way sometimes. Though I know if I could have a simple no-strings "thing" with a hot (to me), young fella, who can hold his own in conversation , I'd likely perk right up.
It's the complications of day-today relationships that cause the urge to hang back and disappear ...

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I agree

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sounds more like your apathetic to any relationship that doesnt meet a high standard than asexual my asexual friends like company but sex just does not enter the equation never has never will as one put it

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In my marriage, I was beginning to feel like an asexual, which is why I got out. It wasn't me, it was the lack of interest on my wife's part. I finally started saying Why bother? That's when I knew there was something really wrong. Because normally I'm a horny bastard.

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I know this isn't really the definition of asexual, but the apathy towards meaningless relationships feels similar.

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