@Stepmomofdragons I've learned that racism is everywhere. Humans can't look past their own damn assholes

@Stepmomofdragons not ALL men think like that but rest assured enough do that you're going to find it everywhere. I think it's so engrained in our society that women are here for their pleasure that they don't even think about what they're saying or doing.

Those are generally the same guys who are so upset about the #metoo movement that now they can't even talk to a woman for fear of being accused of assault. When in actuality, if they ask a woman out and she says no, all he has to do is walk away....not keep asking until she feels pressured. Not touch a woman without asking. Not be lewd or disgusting, etc. It ain't rocket science!

Uh yeah....not sure why that's surprising to you. I've had men tell me in comments that if we lived closer we could "help each other out." As if I would obviously jump at the chance to sleep with them.

@Marcie1974 Not so much surprised as wanting clarification. A lot of posts I've seen along these lines turned out to be talking about other sites or mostly about other sites.

@bingst as a woman you come to expect it everywhere

@Marcie1974 That's terrible. Plus that kind of behavior reflects badly on all men, which makes it unduly difficult for the rest of us. I would really like to see all these lecherous idiots kicked off the site.

@bingst it's disheartening. Mostly it happens so much that I don't even notice it. Occasionally I will and realize how crappy and unfair it is. And I'm not even particularly attractive...I can't imagine what beautiful women with hot bodies have to deal with.