For the women :
Has a man every asked you out on a date and when you said no, he reacted in a negative or nasty manner? Was there name calling? What names did he call you?
For the men :
I know all men don't do this, but I'd like your input on this topic... Did you ever call a women a nasty name because you felt rejected?
Never. Most of us men respect women and their thoughts and feelings. it's not personal anyway and even if it is so what and move on.