Is there anything more stressful than leaving one kid to sort out another kid to get ready for school? All I asked for was 1 text to say yea sorted, now it's 10.45 and I'm freaking out! ?
I'm sure your parents didn't call you on your mobile or text you when you had to sort or be sorted by a sibling, they would just patiently wait until you got home after school to determine if further sorting was required. Trust a little and realize that you can sort it later if you need to.
@Josephine Did the cops call you? Are you required at the morgue to identify a body? Some how I doubt that scenario is only something that runs in the back of your mind, try not to be a hover parent, let them be their own people, maybe that's why you didn't get a call right away. You can be caring and loving without being smothering.