I'm not upset for that reason as I have never been "one of the boys" as far as being very forward or aggressive with women; never engaged in "locker room talk" either. And I would never tolerate or condone that in a friend or anyone over whom I had any influence whatsoever.
I don't care who people lump me with. I honestly don't care what other people think about me, and haven't since my twenties.The people who count know me, and the people who don't know me, don't count. I have absolutely no control over other folks thoughts or actions. ☺
Well said!