I find that starting a conversation on-line rather than face to face is harder for me.
Yes... voice calls and video calls are my favs at first... At an appointed time, a formal date to anticipate and prepare for. Texting is worthless for any kind of real communication.
It's not the starting it's the continuation (or not) that is problematical. There's no body language so online is very one dimensional. But you have started, at the time of this reply, 10 conversations, the trick is whether or not you choose to continue with any one of them
It can be hard, particularly depending on what mood I'm in. Sometimes I'm up for chatting online, and sometimes not at all. In person, however, it's easier to talk and to read the other person, plus I just respond better to actual people.
Yep. Usually get a few replies, then done. It's easier to meet someone by happenstance.
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