You might find it, but good luck. One, with this whole social media, my own brand, mentality, seems finding people willing to "tribe" up isn't the norm. IMO you seem to find people that "hang out" with certain groups to identify with a movement, but never really going deep into friendships. Then as you stated, the main mode of communication between strangers today is via a technology that helps to insulate and maintain separation. Esp for guys, if you don't have a circle of friends by the time you finish HS or college, it's near impossible to find one after 25-30. You might meet a new guy friend from your gf/wifes friends, but we don't seek or even allow it to happen naturally (homophobia - or at least fear of appearance)?