It is interesting to me that as I read the answers to posted questions and chat with people, I find I don't understand the rationale behind others responses at all until its explained.
Questions about love, sexuality, and death in particular.
I find much I do relate to, probably more often than not. But it is the differences that fascinate me.

When it comes to politics and other areas where there is a wide divergence of opinion i find that people largely have the same motives behind their beliefs. They simply have incredibly different strategies to address those motives. ( Motives being, for example: Safety, autonomy, financial security, ect)
Their response to love, death, sexuality...same types of responses overall.
So i wonder what made my understanding differ so dramatically in these odd areas.
It doesn't matter what the difference is, the puzzle I enjoy is the "why" of it.