Great post. I have worked in the hospice setting and you are right that most the staff are religious and they think they are being nice and helpful with this type of response. I would encourage you to provide them feedback that this offensive to some people. The comment about a reward in heaven is particularly wrong. I also took care of my elderly parents because it was the right thing to do.
Take Care!

I think you are underestimating what a kind person you are. Not too many people would take on what you have chosen to do. So tell them not to make religious comments, and bask in compliments when they are deserved.

my uncle is in hospice. they diagnosed him for that kind of care 23 months ago. but, he keeps going. with his wheels still turning. you've reminded me, that i need to visit him again. it's been a few weeks. and he does'nt get many, if any, visitors. thanks. take care of "you", too. you're a good egg. hugs

I cared for my father with Renal Ca, sending the biggest hug. It would not be out of line to ask for them to refrain from making religious comments in your home. It should be noted in thier medical records. Now.. if your family are theists and it’s just you, you might have to bite your lip. It’s about your family and thier comfort.