Rough. He’s making it easier to be ambivalent about the divorce. Those diffferences don’t sound reconcilable. Still, it’s a huge loss. Sorry. We understand and support you. ?

Well, some Christians say that tornadoes and hurricanes are God's punishment for homosexuality. Your ex's blame is just as ridiculous and harmful.

Sometimes "faith" allows people to be blind to the harms they cause. You know, like the Crusade and the Inquisition.

I had to leave my marriage as my husband found religion. My youngest son is atheist and my eldest is more agnostic. My ex began to treat us like we were less than. You need to keep moving forward with your life. We are never less than because we don’t believe in fairy tales.

He's using your absence of belief to shift the blame to you. Don't let him. He's abusive, not you. Be glad you're rid of him.

"This helps him easily forget all the verbal and emotional abuse and neglect I experienced with him while I paid for everything" He didn't make financial contributions?

Unthinking zombie religion. Find your own path and best wishes for your son. Sure you will love him no matter his choices. Just let him know he has choices and that he needs to make them through and away from the fog and smoke and mirrors of those trying to choose for him. If he knows the truth, he will make an educated choice. As I have said elsewhere, I don't begrudge those who make "a leap of faith" and choose something they understand may not be real. People like your soon to be ex, well, they upset me because they are blindly going into the unknown and doing so thoughtlessly of themselves and others. Best wishes.

After reading your bio and imagining your present environment might you consider moving? Since you work in the medical field you can get a job anywhere.

How did you put up with that for however long you were married? You're a much wiser person now. Enjoy your much brighter future!