Do you consider yourself a good lover to your partner or spouse and why?
Yes I do, perhaps as a young man I wanted and needed love badly. With that I nourished my understanding of sexual pleasure. The woman is the most important person in the bed and then there is me. Foreplay is an experience that is so special it is unique to the couple.
I'm average. If I ever felt I was any better than that I'd get complacent and stop trying.
I'm generally supportive and thoughtful. We still can make each other laugh and I remember her birthday (not difficult as we were born of the same day!) and look after our family.
I'm also prone to grumpiness (especially when tired) and feeling down (I'm going through a tough time at work which isn't helping, and I'm not depressed in a clinical sense). I'm generally crap at helping around the house (I do my jobs, but she's a clean freak and I'm..... Not). I'm also a terrible cook. I could burn salad!
Depends on how much play my partner is into. If they're into games, it's beyond perfect. If not, then I tend to be not that much into it...
Probably as good as anybody else. Why? I'm knowledgeable.
Is a badly asked question. I think i should have been more specific. Just trying to get a feel of what everyone thinks a good partner should be like in general so i can then reflect those points on myself to see how i measure up.
I have been married for 52 years, When I was younger i had a woman twice my age when i was 18 and still a virgin, take my virginity. We made love almost everyday straight for 2 years, and even a few months after our 1st experience, she still refuse to believe i was a virgin the 1st time we made love. She taught me everything, (AND I MEAN EVERYTHING) at her 40th birthday party my wife went up to her, and said I can't thank you enough for everything you taught my husband, in my world the lady always cums 1st.
Yes I DO because I've been told so AND I'm Always given compliments in the moment !
do you have reference...lol