I actually ran across two women on here who were around my age and had compatibility %s over 80, but neither one wanted to meet me. One traded a couple messages, then ghosted me. The other told me she wasn't interested and gave me a lame excuse that simply because I was a non-drinker (who was married to a social drinker for 20 years w/no problems) that she couldn't date me because other men were "too judgmental" about her drinking. BS, I think more likely my looks were not in her league and she didn't feel like saying it.

My point is that even on this site, should you find other local atheists, it doesn't mean they won't play the same games or lie the way believers do on paid dating sites.