Whew !!! You ladies got it in !!! This is the most informative response I’ve seen on this topic when dudes say that. I had a guy ask me that before and when I asked him a couple of questions, he revealed he was just looking for F-ck buddies, but he was a nice guy!! I just shook my head and said wow! Usually low self esteem or not honorable intentions are the cause. To many fish in the seas not to be able to find one !!! Great responses I will spread the word when appropriate!!! lol ?

I'm not interested in you telling me you're a nice guy. I was once robbed by someone who kept telling me what a nice guy he was. At this point, the only way I'd believe a guy was nice is with consistent proof.

i went to check your profile to see if i could find more of a clue than your asking in this post, since the post alone is a bit of a turn-off, not trying to offend but it IS. i was told you are not available.

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The answer is yes. I've been looking for someone like that . Where can I find him?

Truth is being nice is important, and yes, most women are looking for a nice man. Most women, myself included, are well aware that most Axe Murders come off as being nice in the beginning. How many nice women have you been out with and why didn't every single one of them work out? There is your answer.

1. Have something that a woman wants to be around. In other words, some kind of craft or capacity that allows you to have the ability to make money and create stability in life. Be strong and stable in life.

2. Be able to be playful and curious in conversation. It isn't that you have to be nice; you have to be a capable man. Being nice is something you are intrinsically or not, but it is not necessary to attract women - only the mentally healthy ones. Plenty of women love assholes. Nice is overrated in attraction. It's necessary for a sustained relationship, but that's not the same thing. Playful, curious, and capable - these are paramount.

3. Never let them believe that you depend on them totally. A woman doesn't want to be your mom. Stop hiding from the brutal truth that you are alone in this world and that you will arrive at some place where you no longer have to be self-sufficient in the future. Also, don't confuse being alone with being lonely. Be an individual totally and never lose sight of your responsibility to be a capable human being. She isn't going to stop wanting you to be strong and unconquerable regardless of what is said. Vulnerability is earned when they show they are self-aware enough to handle it properly and only in small amounts. Have friends that you can talk to and don't expect her to be your world.

Everything in the "I'm nice, where is the booty?" refrain from some guys points to the fact that they don't understand these 3 principles. That time when you're single needs to be when you are launching your next project and stepping up you're mind, career, or situation. Have a direction and be moving yourself there. People will come out to see what is going on. Some will be women. If one is interesting to you, say so. If she is into it, then great. If not, then know there will be another one. The moment you find a person vital to your existence is the moment you invite betrayal, disappointment, and ruin. Handle your affairs, be austere in your living and needs, and never lose your capability to find and attract people.

You're on this site - so on some level, you've gotten past the popular dillusion of religion. Apply that same rationality to love and relationships. Love fully and completely, but never stop being a predator in terms of relationship. Women will want to change this, but it will keep them fascinated. When they feel they have control, they will destroy you - not because they are women, but because they are human.

I'm not uniquely attractive, intelligent, or have a lot of money. Still, I've never had trouble with having a woman around when I would adhere to these 3 principles. Get on with it brother, and stop allowing space in your mind for this kind of weakness. You've got this.

Be capable and strong. Be playful and curious. Be independent, austere in your needs, and industrious in your actions.

There are many things to consider when communicating with women. Make sure the picture is well lit and you’re catching a good angle. You definitely don’t want a head on shot, or a complete profile shot. Make sure you hair is well trimmed. Try to hide the balls as much as you can. Realize that they never photograph well. Perhaps get a professional to take the picture.

If all else fails, just find a good photo off a porn site. By the time they realize it’s not yours, it’s too late.

Good luck.

As a woman here. What woman is not looking forc a nice guy? Well everyone has a type but since you ask..of course I am. I think many look too much into a question unless there is something between the lines I am not seeing. Start as friends and see where it goes.

You have to be able to fake it really, really well to get over on 'em. Polish up on your pretend sincerity.

Dood, figure it out. The women here are not interested in meeting anybody. Despite what the site is advertised as. Try Ourtime.

Do we deserve a girlfriend? Think back to a time when you played with young girls and drank their invisible tea and ate their cakes made out of mud just to be considered. I think I was in first grade.

This very question hints at perhaps resentment of thinking you are owed a girlfriend in the first place.

From just my observation on what attracted women over my lifetime, it is mostly physical. Women, girls who would not give me the time of day when I was overweight would aggressively hit on me when my weight was proportional to my height (at least four cycles in my lifetime). I have also observed that women/girls will actually be attracted to physical appearance (and in some instances, social status, and wealth) rather than the idealistic traits that they will state that attract them. So my advice to you is to get better looking, become "somebody", and acquire wealth.

Women are looking for nice. The problem is that often the ones that say they are nice not actually nice. Saying isn't enough. You have to show it. Women can see it in how you treat them and others.

Social worker here. There could be a variety of reasons you aren’t getting tesponses. Perhaps you’re pursuing women who aren’t looking for a guy like you. Perhaps you’re coming on too strong, or expecting too much too soon. Ask a close friend your question, they’ll have more insight than strangers on the net.

Most of times when I see guys defining themselves as nice guys, the guy is not nice at all.
Treating people right is not a plus, it is a basic. If this is all you are showing, then you became in the best situation boring, but also can be creepy depending on how are you not showing anything other than a "nice face"