My dear man, I have just taken a look at your profile page and it is virtually blank! You have been here since July and made three posts, none of them witty or interesting, but whiny and self-centred. You have made no effort to make any replies to any other posts or just generally join in this community, what exactly did you think the reaction to you would be? I am an old gal and not looking for a hook-up, but if I were, I would expect a bit more effort to be expended by any man trying to attract my attention.

Perhaps because it's an atheist site firstly and only vaguely open to dating, but certainly not a dating site. Besides, I think you'll find that most of the women here are 40+ in age and not actively looking. Browse some profiles and you'll see that they have insurmountable expectations (not that there's anything wrong with that).

A word of advice: Women are much more attracted to men who are interested in community as a whole instead of those who just put themselves out there to be looking for a piece. Show your ability to have interesting conversation with everyone and the interested ladies would likely appear.

You've made no effort and you've got nothing in return. That's not surprising.

You describe yourself as a "farmer market going foodie." Do you think those farmers stake out an empty field and hope tomatoes will grow there?

Poor baby. Maybe you need a charisma by-pass.

Bye Felicia?

The suspense is terrible. I hope it'll last.

I've met some stellar people on this site. You should send messages, comment on discussions. Dude. Put yourself out there.