Having a bit of a spat with my son 49 years old I am 70y.o. sort of strange!
As long as it’s a bit of a spat and not a full blown war, it’s all good. Our kids are people in their own right if we did our job as parents right. That means we will not always agree. It’s how we handle the disagreements that counts. Do we respect our differences, or like children, hold steadfast to our position with no room for dissent? I hope you work things out.