I don't think anyone should get married before about 40 !

Some people sinply arent' nature enough until later in life.

I didn't marry until I as 43,due to low wages after my Air Force separation, only until I got a better job ,was I able to afford the hunt for a wife,I used an ad in a singles paper in San Diego Ca,(ancient technology)she read it, called me up,we met,dated and married 6 months later,I was #3 husband,she was my first wife.

Call me skeptical, or call me I've seen too much, but evidence shows a near 100 percent recidivism rate for pedos. Getting married late too often equals marrying someone who already has kids. I've worked in social work and the education field and have made reports as a mandatory reporter.

That is a true statement for some people..... Everyone is different and there are too many ways to skin a cat. Usually one reality is different than someone else reality. There is that.

Worked for me. I got married first (and only) time at age 40. Was the right thing because I was not only mature enough but the woman had no kids, like me, and was too old to want or have them. Which worked out great because when I was dating before her it seemed like none of the women my age wanted me since they either wanted kids or already had them and I made it clear I didn't want to be a parent or stepparent.

There is a lot to be said for young and stupid. We built 38 epic years on not knowing shit to start with.

Word. Or, not at all. I have no intention of doing it again.

Yes it is.