Now I'm an agnostic atheist, but I haven't always been that way. I had such an active imagination as a child that religion seemed kind of dull and unfulfilling in comparison. However, I keep in mind as an atheist, that I am at a certain point in a personal journey of discovery and understanding that just isn't the same point many others are at. I think it important to keep in mind when interacting with others that they may be at now where you were once. It is also possible that they may be ahead of you and if that were the case it would be prudent to listen and learn.
If anyone had all this figured out at the age of five, then good for you, but none of this is a race. None of us will get out of life alive.
Your imagination made religion seem dull? Thats odd I think my overactive childhood imagination was the only thing that allowed me to get into religion in the first place. The detailed ancient histories mixed with crazy sci fi violence and insanity? It sounded pretty awesome as a kid haha. Im totally blaming my overactive imagination on my indoctrination but perhaps imagination can be separated from gullibility at a younger age than I figured. Were your parents very religious or nah? If so you're a lucky and/or clever bastard to escape so early.
When people free themselves from religion, they are better off in the long run. No matter what age that is. I do wish I became an atheist at 21 in instead of 41, but every bodies journey life is different. It's full of self discovery,etc.
Id say I joined the freedom 21 club here and life aint too much sweeter because of it necessarily. I might have a headstart at releasing some guilt but to be honest 10 years later Im just as neurotic and shame plagued now as I was as a religious person half the time, just for more realistic reasons now. Im workin on it. Weed, yoga, music and martial arts are my therapy. Wouldnt turn down some real therapy either, especially of the massage persuation. Im convinced life isnt much harder or easier seeming to anyone in modern society, we all kinda acclimate n find the same balance of gratitude and despair as we would have experienced in most any other circumstances. Any way you can find to get to know yourself, forgive yourself, combined with working hard and relaxing harder I find speeds up the process of releasing the baggage but I still have my slumps.
I bailed out of traditional Christianity at an early age, however, IMO there is such a thing as throwing out the bath water and keeping the baby. I really like your idea of continually evolving and moving forward.
You are right. This is not a race, and it is logically necessary to respect all of our fellow humans regardless of where they are spiritually.
A declaration of atheism should be just the beginning.
My best guy friend is a Republican and today in the context of conversation amongst several of us I explained the "argument from authority" fallacy. I pointed out that it's fine to cite an authority to support an argument to long as the person has relevant experience, because people can be brilliant in certain areas and dumb as a post in others. He lit up with a big smile. "Just like you," he said -- "you're brilliant about a lotta tings I don't know a ting about, but that don't mean I know nuffin'" (this in his rural Pennsylvania accent). "Exactly," I said ... "you are smart about a lot of things I know nothing about."
This is how people with different views get along ...
@Elganned I'm not certain he was even a brilliant brain surgeon. I would not want him operating on me, that's for sure.
People who get a degree are not necessarily very good at what they managed to eke out a degree in. In both medicine and in software development -- two areas I have a fair bit of experience in -- accurately identifying and diagnosing problems and then finding the most effective route to a solution is key. And in both fields, there are orders of magnitude of difference between an average and a top practitioner, because just mastering, e.g., anatomy or a couple of programming languages is not the same thing as mastering your core competency. Those are just tools.