I'm laughing and trying not to spit my drink on anyone.

@OwlInASack I picked out the creepiest one just to be silly! Lol

@OwlInASack I often have different taste in men and/or looks than what a lot of women do.

@OwlInASack I prefer older gentlemen, especially with grey hair or bald like Sam Elliott or Tom Skerritt.

On dating sites I again gravitate towards guys 10-15 years older with grey or bald and really like a "dad bod" or stocky stature.

@OwlInASack hell no! Well I'm not just being kind anyways. I try not to limit myself by body type but I'm really not attracted to slim men. Again, I won't necessarily NOT date a slim guy who seems like a good guy, but it's generally not a physique I'm drawn to.

@OwlInASack my 2nd grade teacher was a ginger. I came home from school my first day and told my mom I wanted red-headed babies. Ended up marrying a ginger but sadly both kids are blonde, lol.

After divorcing though I'm no longer drawn to fair hair/skinned men.

@OwlInASack I wouldn't avoid dating a ginger simply because of that.....lol

Attraction is weird, I also generally prefer under 6' tall. I've had the hots for the UPS driver that delivers to my work. Totally not my normal type, he must be at least 6'4", blonde, and even has a mustache. Not sure what it is though, but I get like a 12 year old girl whenever he stops.

I feel like Elf, "I think you're really beautiful and I feel really warm when I'm around you and my tongue swells up."

@OwlInASack that's great, because really, personality is/should be more important.

@OwlInASack I think I need to start incorporating the word snogging into my vocabulary.

@OwlInASack alas, snogging will have to bloody wait until I find a partner.

@OwlInASack yeah....I gave up casual sex in an attempt to try and work on building up my self esteem and try to find someone interested in actually dating.

Here's how my mind works after casual sex or in a FWB situation....I feel like I'm good enough for snogging but not good enough to actually date. Like my only worth is the holes a guy can stick his dick in. Sorry to be crude but it makes me feel really crappy.

@OwlInASack one would think but I'm finding it extremely difficult to connect with anyone looking for more than a night or two.

I really didn't date before I got married though so it has been a bit of fun for me. I've also learned a lot about myself and continue to do so.