Isn't it Ironic? I joined this site to date (men) and got one I am dating (thank you) but I spend most of my time on here talking to women! HAHA! It;s good! Most of my male friends are agnostic or atheist but all my female friends are Jewish or Christian so this is excellent. It's so nice to talk honestly with other women.
I think it's because in today's world women are usually better people.
Every time I try to talk to a lady here some gaggle of jerks jump on the "um actually" wagon and whine about how I'm ruining the site.
Gaggle of jerks? Your problem seems clear enough to me.
Perhaps you need Tinder or Facebook as this ‘gaggle of jerks’ are in the most part clever, articulate people who, from the sound of your comment, you could learn so much from. If you are here just for dating probably not for you as the women you interact with will be clever and articulate and generally of the same nature as the’gaggle of jerks’. I suspect you would be out of your depth very quickly and with an attitude like that no one is going to assist, just grateful that your genes are out of the gene pool.
The community is the 'glue" of the site. It is nice not to worry about offending someone over some irrational abstract construct.
Not sure why I joined, if I am honest. Probably a mix of dating, curiosity and community. Though living in the buckle of the bible belt seems to have a supressive effect. I am sure there are some members out there, somewhere . . .
Just joined...hope to meet people to talk to...FL would be great but all over the world is fine!
Hi! Happy to chat from Ft. Myers Florida. Welcome!
Is this place the best ...or what? And of course the people are fantastic.....mostly
Caught one, might catch another, or two, or,....
Haha. Not trying.
@Jacar How is that clear? Hmmm. Not insulted by your comment - just curious why you say that.
@Jacar Of course not! I'll talk to men, women, transpersons, animals and plants... I don't care. My statement was about how much I appreciated the women here which I was lacking in my life . These chicks are mad cool. And so are some of you guys!! I don't think we speak the same language because there is another thing you said to me in a different thread I have not yet been able to respond to.
@Jacar Haha OK. I don't think Prince Charming is looming here so happy with what's going on for me now and not fishing. I actually don't eat seafood and allergic to shellfish.
I’m only here for community and enjoy interacting with everyone, but there are some ladies here that I KNOW it would just be so cool to hang out with in real life. I have a lot of girlfriends in real life anyway, but because they all believe in god there are some subjects that I keep clear of. You great atheist gals are way cool!!
I have many gf in NYC but not one in FL except my sis in law. One potential at work - But I don't like to mix co-workers and friendships too much so I have pulled back a little, Oh yeah she is Xian too. I really enjoy talking with all the women here.
Yes this is a good site to discuss your lack of beliefs with other atheist. The problem is most of them seem to be left wing liberals.
@Trajan61 I have found all kinds of political views here, some are even right wing reactionaries. That is fine, we are here to have discourse with those of opposing opinions, otherwise it would just be a mutual admiration society where we all thought the same. Just because we don’t believe in god doesn’t mean that we are a homogenous group politically or philosophically. Most of my friends in the outside world are neither of my political persuasion or atheist, this has never stopped us being friends.
Congrats. I joined to read and share dome interesting thoughts. Never expected to find the "L" word after 7 years, especially near by in this "atheist and agnostic " forsaken place.
After 7 years? Has this site been here that long or do you mean after 7 years of being single?
@Dandewine being alone. Met someone here after only a few months
@Beowulfsfriend Got it. That's great!
I am new here so, I haven't really talked to anyone yet. Judging by profiles, pictures, and discussions I can tell that the ladies here are fab!!!
Girl crushin'!!
We are!