Aw... I just saw this message:
"If we were in the 4th grade in 1934 I would dip your pigtails in my inkwell."
Why can't we go back there? ?
No. Teaching kids that doing essentially mean things means they like you creates issues when they're grown up. It's not charming. Charming is a little boy giving a girl a cookie or something. Or a little girl sharing her milk carton. They're adorable when they're all earnest and nice to each other.