So...since July, I've had an up and down journey with a local lady. She is foreign/had obstacles, but has a real live life to the fullest attitude! Be your best, look your best, explore etc, etc. Me? Coming off the loss of my wife is still a challenge in the opposite direction of that. However, after 2-3 break ups, we have had good conversations about falling in, or sabatoging a relationship. Maybe I was subconsciously sabatoging the relationship out of guilt and loss....perhaps. She is picky and fussy, but certainly not break up items. Where are we now? A pretty good place. I'm starting to enjoy life again and let go. Just thought I share. It's been awhile since I've posted.
A loss due to death or divorce; Which is worse? A divorce.may have the partners bump into one another,unless one moves away, Death is forever,(however the Heaven aspect of the afterlife, is strong in many people).
Well at least you are thinking about it. None of life is easy.
Relationships take work - always! Dan and I are going through some medical and legal challenges. Can only make our bond stronger.
Really good to hear you are enjoying life and letting go