"I want to know why you are who you are." (a quote from Boy Erased)

That line means a lot to me. I want more than just some guy to rip off my clothes, ravage me, and then walk out the door never to be seen again. I'd like to get to know someone. Now, that being said, I'm not going to put on a white dress after our first date. I really want to spend time getting to know someone before making a commitment.

I've lost any desire to believe in any god. I prefer to think that LOVE is my higher power. So instead of asking,"What would Jesus do?" I prefer to ask myself, "What would LOVE do?"

Lately, I've found that older men are kinder and patient, but that doesn't mean that I'm not attracted to younger men as well. They are gentle and aren't so hot to just get into my pants. I like that, although getting into my pants is something I hope for after a couple of date.

I love sex. I'm a bottom and I'm very orally inclined both giving and receiving and I have been told that I am one of the best kissers out there.

I'm the real life father of three adult kids and two grandsons who live in San Diego. I'm expecting a granddaughter in April. I'm a retired school principal but I work as the administrative assistant for an LGBTQ (and straight people, too!) church in Palm Springs. I love to cook and bake and I'm crazy about dogs, especially my little Biscuit.

I really do want to get to know why you are who you are? What went into making you who you are today? We all have those things.

Why not have coffee together and see where it leads, huh?

I am in San Diego frequently because of family so if you live there, drop me a note, too.

If that’s all you want, I hear Tinder works.