Looking for that one friend with benefits who is actually fairly local to me and not in the US lol
before you look for a friend with benefits, shouldn't you look for a friend? i don't mean "should" as in judgmental, moral crap. i mean "should" in a practical way. friendship isn't automatic. if you are looking for a friend with benefits who isn't yet a friend, you may well find the benefits without the friendship. that's the same thing as screwing strangers.
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