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If a guy or girl straight up asked you to have sex with them, how would you respond to it?

Idontevenknow1 4 Feb 21
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I'd have to quote Title IX and file a report.

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Back in my day it was 'ya wanna ball?' And the answer was -always- yes. Oh, yesss.

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Let's rephrase the question; Suppose you are at a friends house and they are having a party. You don't know everyone there but you know your friend enough to trust what kind of folks they would invite to their home. You live close enough that you chose to walk there. Over the course of the evening, you repeatedly see an attractive person there that you don't know. It's been a long time and so you cross the room and engage this person in conversation and after several minutes you sense a connection and then out of nowhere, they ask you if you'd like to go somewhere more private. Yes or No.

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I'd be flattered and say not on the first date and maybe not even on the second. 🙂

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I would be looking for the pranksters!

That sort of stuff just doesn't happen to me, but if they were attractive and could convince me of the sincerity of the offer, then probably would give it a go (with a female)

not into guys, so they would get a polite no.

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No, thank you.

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I would where is the camera that is recording the show and the name of the show and walk away.

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Really depends on my attitude at the time. I have use the following to divert folks. "I gave at the office", "doctor says I'm still contagious & to finish my meds this time" "cute. How often has that worked for you in the past?" "Sorry, I'm a sapiosexual & I really don't think we're compatible"

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I had to think about that one. I remember a his and hers T-shirt. His said: "just because I will sleep with you doesn't mean I love your". Hers said: "Just because I love you doesn't mean I'll sleep with you". Mine would say: I would have to love you to sleep with you"!

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Depends who was asking.

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With a Big Ass NO.

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I assume you mean stranger. No, I don't know them and there are way to many questions I would have before I considered sleeping with anyone. I'm no prude, I just prefer to know my partner on a deeper level.

If a good female friend of mine asks, and I find her attractive and know it won't get weird, then I would probably agree. I've seen me do it. Lol.

People can do what ever they want though. What happens between you and another consenting adult in private is your business.

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Does She /He stink?

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If an attractive woman asked me, of course.

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Big NO!
There has to be a catch!

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I would refuse, but it would it would depend on the person, and how it was asked, as to whether I would feel offended, just amused, or worried.

So far, here in Thailand, three Thai married women bosses (stunningly beautiful, young) have asked me to stay over, or openly propositioned me. In those cases I had to be very careful to help them save face. In two cases, I politely explained that I don't take lovers, and in one, I simply acted "dense" and pretended not to understand the point after my boss asked me on a birding trip to see "nesting hornbills," by Krabi.

I went to Krabi with her (she had me at "nesting hornbills" ) ), but didn't allow anything to happen afterward.

By the way, despite my being demisexual, many men could date me if they asked me on a birding trip, and that's how I started dating my ex. He didn't particularly like birds himself, but went with me on a rock-climbing/birding trip and sat with me high on a cliff for hours to observe wildlife and birds below and take photos.

He was a busy airline pilot flight instructor, but carefully courted me for over a year, despite my lack of encouragement.

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