The "good guys" I know constantly grouse about women opting for the bad boys, while women complain about men who lie and don't communicate, or take advantage. But the 'good guys' don't see how they are assholes thinking themselves as good.

It's all labeling, none of it respectful, some of it hateful as far as I'm concerned. Even "friend zone" carries a connotation of bitterness over unrequited affection.

The women that have friend zoned me seem to have no problem asking me to fix everything in their lives and on their houses, as to the so-called sluts I'm making breakfast for one of them now. Being sexually uninhibited is one of the best traits any woman can have.

If I cared about the terms people choose to use to describe me, I would have folded years ago...it is on them, not me...any behavior can be labeled differently and have different meanings...a lot of words have lost their impact from overuse or misuse...I teasingly call some of my girlfriends sluts for having lots of sex...(jealous)...certainly not going to change their behavior nor how I feel about them...so why would name calling from strangers impact them?

Also, when a woman rejects a man's advances, she's frigid, or a lesbian. Men are simply trying to preserve their pride.

Many people think that women are easy targets and should always be told what and what not to do. Don't dress down, don't dress up. Don't leave children too late. Don't start a family too early. Etc. True it is not just women they also try it to a lesser extent with men. The answer is the same though, stop trying to be a woman or a man and just be you.

I think my all-time favorite has been "ball-buster".
I take that to mean that I am being effective. I don't care how the
user means it.

I also completely agree with @HomeAloneSunday.
Women never win the sex war.
We are going to be demonized no matter what we do.

I was told by a very fisty 75 year old woman that Slut was used by weak men about a woman who liked sex as much as a man! Given the stupidity that men can think and do, that seems about right.