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So this is a Text I got from a young "Christian" woman I was friends with...

"I have to say this. And it has NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU. But everything to do with me. I’m really in this season of just finding more out about God, so that I can be able to take in the things that he has prepared for me. So, in this season, I can’t handle any distractions, I don’t wanna “talk” to a man, I don’t wanna date, and I whole heartedly don’t even wanna be friends. My flesh is V E R Y weak. And I can’t allow another man to come into my life. Not even to be my friend. And I can’t even apologize to you for being this way, because then I’d be apologizing to you, for wanting better for myself. And I will never let that happen. Thank you for being a great person to me! I appreciate you!"

At first I was understanding, but later I felt like she was using religion as a shield from intimacy. Thats what led me to this site. What do you'll think?

#Christian #religion #intimacy #friends #flesh #god
AlfonseCapone 6 Feb 4
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Level 7

Oh, for fuck's sake. Stay clear of that bag of crazy.

what she said. haha😉

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Level 8

Sounds like she's ready for the nunnery !

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Level 7

To me,it's excuse time,but she may be ultra religious also,Church twice a day? If it were me,I'd RUN LIKE HELL WAS CHASING ME!

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Level 5

I'll admit that the way she worded that text is weird, but maybe it really is about her and her wanting to be closer to her religion. I've been in your situation and it's easy for us to judge or make assumptions, but I would just take this as a sign to find someone else more compatible with your values/beliefs and leave it at that.

I agree and coming from a female it helps validate that view point. Thank you...
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Level 8

Looks like she was looking for any excuse to cut you out of her life.
She's just not into you. Move on.

PS -- she's batshit crazy and you'll be fine

I was thinking maybe she wasn't that into me also, but she pursued the whole relationship, thats what had me so confused. I moved on though trust me, I have others to choose from. I did really like her though I won't lie. I think maybe its just a generation gap. We may interact differently...

Thanks for keeping it real! Im not scared to hear someone's just not that into me. I would have rather her said that then some utter nonsense...

It was wierd cause she messaged me happy birthday on fb a couple weeks later, but I unfriended her after that...

She also sent me that text after I didnt text her for a few days. I feel like she felt she was losing control over the relationship and she bailed. (Just an assumption)...
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Level 8

let her use religion as a shield. she obviously has some psychological problems and it's not your job to get her help. she'll work it out -- or she won't -- but without you, and that's your lucky break.

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Level 7

Yeah you dodged a bullet on that one buddy she's crazier than a bag of cats

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Level 7

She is trying to avoid...

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