Yeh, I feel your pain. There is a lot of posts on here, most of which don't interest me ( I don't live in the US ). So, what I did was 'tailor' what appears in my feed in 'Recent Member Activity'. There is a settings icon (gear wheel) and you can select your prefered/unprefered topics. Hope that helps.

you have joined agnostic.com and/or humanist.com. if you want to post to a group WITHIN that site, you have to join the group. this is partly a dating site. it is mostly a community, a social medium. the dating part is best experienced by contributing to the community part. and yes, we tend to be agnostics, atheists, etc., here, but just like everyone else, we don't want to talk about that one topic all day long. the only thing we have in common is a lack of belief in a god or gods. we vary wildly from that point on, and have many interests. if you were looking for a mate, would being a nonbeliever be enough? wouldn't you want her to have a whole slew of interests, with some of them matching your interests?

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It is really not that much of a dating site. There are not enough people and they are spread out all over the world. Check out the groups. I am sure you will find things you can relate to. Dog knows there are enough of them.

Relax. There are no exams and nobody will force any big boobs in your face

Slow down. Join the community. Find friends then join groups. No rush.

It's not hard. Click join group if it interests you. We joined the site...and then you can choose groups you want notifications from and post in or not. You'll get it.

I find in poignant that you note your “boob” preference in this post - I’m finding that this platform is like a potpourri of topics and diversions - none of which I’ve found that unappealing as of yet - have fun exploring ( my response should give you some points toward leveling up)

Just take your time and poke around. Join a few groups that interest you and comment on things you find interesting. Most important - is to take your time. It definitely can seem overwhelming at first, but soon enough you will get the hang of . Lots of interesting folks out there! Ill be your spirit guide for now!